The ideas of Gayle Rubin and Franz Fanon are applicable to the first episode of MTV’s “The Real World: Denver.” A group of people who have never met are thrown into the same house together, and personalities and perspectives clash almost immediately. One of the rommates, Davis, announces to the rest of the group that he’s gay, and Stephen confronts him. He’s astonished–the first thing he says is, “That’s weird.” He tells Davis that he’s not used to it because he’s very conservative, and then he proceeds to ask, “Are you sure you’re gay?” Davis counters by saying he’s known for years, and that his mom had enrolled him in Christian counseling because of it. Davis claims he’s a religious man, to which Stephen replies, “That baffles me. That just doesn’t match up.” In his mind, someone cannot be both gay and a devout Christian. Stephen is exercising his prejudices, which have been perpetuated by society’s definitions of sex and gender. Society reproduces these conventions, says Rubin, and leads people to believe that its established perceptions are what we need to emulate. “Sex is sex,” she says, “but what counts as sex is culturally determined and obtained” (1668). Stephen only sees the gender roles of male and female, and only sees sexual arrangements as heterosexual. The old definitions of gender are using him–he believes that “gender entails that sexual desire be directed toward the other sex,” and that the sexes should be “divided into two mutually exclusive categories” (1675, 1674).
Brooke, another roommate, mentions to Tyrie that she wishes she could live with someone gay. “Why?” he asks. In an aside, Tyrie confesses that homosexuality is “something that is not discussed in the black community.” Tyrie and Stephen are defining Davis by their own standards and are lumping him into the category of “gay” without learning of his identity as an individual. Though Fanon’s theories show the black man as the “Other,” they pertain to Davis as well. “Everything is anticipated,” he writes, “thought out, demonstrated” (122). Just as he says there will always be a world between blacks and whites, so will there be a schism between heterosexuals and homosexuals in Tyrie’s and Stephen’s eyes. “At the very moment that I was trying to grasp my own being,” Fanon continues, “Sartre, who remained the ‘Other,’ gave me a name and shattered my best illusion (137). The two of them start off on a bad note with Davis, and Davis knows that the name given to him–”the gay one”–will most likely not dissolve as their stay in the house unfolds.
Even in a mindless show such as this one, Fanon and Rubin are easily applicable. Their theories take the text from specific to general–from an instance between three roommates to the worldwide, timeless issue of having your individuality taken away from you.
